I stuffed the cat back in….

14 Jun

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An update on my previous post

I bit the bullet and I told him en route to therapy this evening, we had to run some errands before officially setting off and he had questioned little things like why hasn’t I picked a CD to listen to yet etc so I told him it was because I wanted to talk to him once we got going. He asked what about and made jokes etc so by the time we were on our way the atmosphere was a little more settled.

I told him I didn’t know how he would feel etc and told him exactly what happened and what was discussed. As I did he nodded along in agreement and once finished said…. “…. And then….?”

And then nothing, that was it.

To which he said “oh… Why would you think I’d be mad about that??”


Out of all of it he was more interested in the kidnapping as he doesn’t remember that but seeing as he must have been 10yrs old at the time it’s strange that he doesn’t. He said he didn’t mind me talking to her because I gave nothing -about what’s going on with us- away, it’s all stuff I would have asked her regardless and she probably expects it to some extent from a daughter-in-law.

So that was that. Instant relief as i remembered that even though i cant read him, he CAN read me and he knows I’m only ever thinking of us and how to help.

We got through our session and over-ran by an hour but it was all very encouraging; however as the appointment was at 9pm (cause that’s how we roll) we didn’t get home till gone midnight so I’ll have to update on the session another time – obviously not in great detail but just more than I can give right now. – what I will say is I got a gold star sticker for good behaviour 🙂

So that’s all folks



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12 responses to “I stuffed the cat back in….

  1. WyndyDee

    June 14, 2013 at 12:39 am

    So, so proud of you both and the progress you are making! Gold Star…wow! That is awsum! Hugs and Love girl!

    • Comfortably Numb

      June 14, 2013 at 4:14 pm

      Thank you Wyndy 🙂 Yeah he really didnt get why I was so worried about telling him ha ha xB

  2. John W. Howell

    June 14, 2013 at 12:55 am

    Someone once said 90% of what we worry about never happens. This was one of those. 🙂

    • Comfortably Numb

      June 14, 2013 at 4:15 pm

      Yup, that would be me lol worry worry worry 🙂 xB

  3. behindthemaskofabuse

    June 14, 2013 at 1:18 am

    I’m so glad it went well. 🙂

  4. Olivia Stocum

    June 14, 2013 at 1:49 am

    You guys are doing great! So glad it worked out alright.

    • Comfortably Numb

      June 14, 2013 at 4:16 pm

      Thank you Olivia, massive weight (from the confession) lifted and the session after answered a lot of questions too 🙂 xB

  5. Charles Yallowitz

    June 14, 2013 at 1:50 am

    Happy to hear that he wasn’t mad. Congrats.

  6. beetleypete

    June 14, 2013 at 8:37 am

    Often our biggest worries are about how we would feel if the situation was reversed. Glad it all went smoothly.
    As ever, Pete. X

  7. Fat Bottom Girl

    June 14, 2013 at 3:26 pm

    Glad to hear you were able to tell him, and he took it well. 🙂


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